Shit happens. But a lot of it has been happening to me lately.
I am now a single mom.
My final divorce hearing will be next week. I can honestly say that I am happy for this to be over and done with.
A year agin I started asking my husband for marriage counseling. I sought the advice of friends and family and they helped. But then he would never follow any advice given. Because he never saw anything wrong with our relationship.
With the constant fighting, lots of silent treatment and begging for help and constant arguing over treatment of our children I don't know how he thought everything was okay.
The straw that finally broke my back was my bank card went missing and he changed all the passwords to our finances.
He denies knowing anything about my card. And he blames his mom for changing the passwords. Says she told him to because I have been spending too much money.
How could I have possibly been spending too much money when I had to get my mom to buy Michael's school supplies and clothes? What was I spending too much money on and did not buy myself a pair of shoes to replace the ones with holes in the bottoms?
Oh I am sorry. I did buy myself a Christmas present of $50.00 worth of yarn, mail order. I guess that was just too much.
He did not bother to tell his mom about the nearly $2000.00 he spent on camera equipment. Because he fancies himself a ghost hunter? Bull shit. He has just watched too much Ghost Aventures. But he will never be Zac. I mean come on. And sit there and tell me all about how he used to get so possessed all the time when he was a child. BULL SHIT! Oh, and our oldest son is the ghost boy that used to play with him when he was a kid.
Anyway.
I asked him for an uncontested divorce on February 6th. I filed on February 10th. He left on February 28th. I have been alone for almost two months now.
Not alone.
I have my boys. Jonathan's 4th birthday was today. His daddy talked to him for about 20 minutes.
They don't want to talk to him, but sometimes they do. Michael does not like it when Jason yells at me over Skype.
Which he does every chance he can get.
He asked me almost a month ago if we could do a skype schedule for him and the boys to talk. I said fine and suggested Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 7pm. He said okay. All was well. Until two weeks of this schedule had passed. I looked and realized that the boys were being lethargic and moody after their talks with him. None lasting longer than 20 minutes.
I asked him three weeks ago if we can just go to monad and Thursday for the talks. He said no, I was keeping his boys from him and he would be sure to tell the court that.
Then a couple days ago he goes, hey why don't we just do this on Monday and Thursday? Um......Didn't I say the same thing?
Asshole.
The bullshit really started when I went up to see my parents in Sherman, Texas a few weeks ago. I got home at a weird time and the boys were so sleepy that they barely made it into the house. They went straight to bed and they slept, hard. Well that night we missed his calls on Skype. So he messages me on Facebook. I did not get those because I was asleep.
He stews in his own rancidness for a few hours and decides to call my house phone at 1am. It woke up my children. Needless to say I was pissed. He never apologized for it either.
Got all pissy with me because I did not tell him where I was and what I was doing with his children. I told him that if I wanted to I could let my parents take the boys to Disney if they wanted to. He said that he would call and report the boys as kidnapped. For real!?!?
Anyway.
Stay tuned I for all kinds of drama and stuff.
And in case you are wondering. Me and my boys are doing great! Going to get pictures with the Easter bunny tomorrow. Something that is a first, because he never allowed it. It is going to be fun. :)
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